to be human is to perpetrate

The hardest posts to read on insta are the ones where I don’t identify as the victim but as the perpetrator.

To take accountability for causing hurt is a sign of ego strength, while narcissism is actually a sickness that comes from weakness of ego. 

I use the term ego in the psychoastrological sense - not as something bad or something to overcome, but ego as the container for our will and individuation. 

Ego is important. A strong ego means your solar essence is functioning properly. When you are a sustainable source of light and warmth, you don’t depend on others for it.